Additional Services

What Clients Have to Say: 

“For anyone who has experienced the loss of a loved one, you know that the days/weeks following the death are a whirlwind.  Abbe helped ease the burden and stress on the day of the services in countless ways.  Not only was she the “point” at our home to welcome guests following the service, but she also helped to make sure food was set up and ready to go upon arrival and welcomed those joining us with empathy and kindness.  Her presence allowed us to be fully present with all who joined us – we were able to listen to stories, talk with family and friends, and process the day fully and not worry about “hosting”.  Abbe attended to every detail right down to creating flower arrangements from the funeral flowers to share with family, which I would never have thought of.  We are so very grateful for her kindness, presence, and support.  It meant everything to us.”  - Whitney B. Kittery, ME

Examples of Events:

• Funeral/Celebration of Life
• Bridal Shower
• Baby Shower
• Parties: Anniversary, holiday, birthday, bar/bat mitzvah
• Conference

Examples of tasks I can assist with at your event:

• Set up and clean up.
• Help guests with coats, bags, and other items to make them feel more comfortable.
• Keep food trays full & tables organized and clean.
• Floral breakdowns.
• Packing up leftover food.
• Assist guests: make sure they have drinks and food, answer any questions.
• Keep event running smoothly.
• Be the point person for caterers and/or any other vendors.

As a Notary Public in Maine, I have performed dozens of wedding ceremonies. 

Package includes:

• Initial Zoom Meeting to discuss details & get to know each other.
• A questionnaire for the couple to fill out so that I can create your perfect ceremony.
• Creation of custom & unique ceremony.
• A follow-up meeting to discuss/edit.
• An in-person meeting to go over the logistics of the ceremony with the couple.
• Attendance at Rehearsal to go through the ceremony with the wedding party: I will leave prior to dinner.
• Day of Wedding Attendance: I will leave after the ceremony.
• Copy of finalized ceremony for couple to have.
• Special gift after the wedding.

Total Package: $350

Contact me for references from my happy couples.

For smaller events, that would require only one bartender, I can help.

You provide the bar, the alcohol, the ice, and all the other accouterment. I will keep guest's drinks full at your next event.

Okay, so I am not a building contractor or a mover or a financial planner, but what I can help you with in regards to the above events, is to think of everything that needs to be done, do as much as I can to get those things done, and find people to do what I cannot. Prioritizing what needs to be done, assisting with best practices on how to pack, and what you need to do. I will take as much off your plate as possible during an overwhelming time in your life.

All examples above are just that, examples. I may not have listed the exact type of event, but let’s talk, I’m sure I can help.

All additional services are $85 per hour unless noted otherwise.

I require a $250 deposit to hold the day. Payments may be made via Venmo, Credit Card*, or a check made out to "Your ABstract Assistant" and mailed to:

Your ABstract Assistant

72 ME-236

Suite 254

Kittery, ME 03904

The remaining cost will be invoiced and sent via email and due within 3 days of receipt.

I require a credit card number to be placed in your file in case there are any billing issues. Your card will be charged if this occurs.